Life is all about the people we meet. The summer of 2004 was my first in California. I was adjusting to life in a new state with my family to include my “new mom”! We were settling into our house in the cul-de-sac, and I was preparing to start eighth grade in a few weeks. I was at home one day and decided to go outside and play basketball on the hoop. (There was a basketball on the ground so I used it.) I figured it belonged to the neighbors but hadn’t seen them much since being there. I had been shooting for a few minutes when I noticed the window blinds on the neighbor’s house kept shifting. I tried to ignore it but it continued to happen every few minutes, alternating upstairs and downstairs. I was a bit confused but went on shooting. After a while, two girls around my age came out of the house and introduced themselves- Megan and Chelsea.
Once we had covered where I was from, our ages, what schools we were heading to, and what sports we enjoyed, Chelsea excused herself and ran into the house. As soon as the door closed, Megan turned to me and asked, “Do you like my sister?” I was caught off guard and I’m sure she could see my surprised look. I stammered something like, “She seems cool,” and we went on talking. Literally a minute later Chelsea ran back out. As soon as she joined us, they smiled at each other, Megan excused herself and ran into the house. The moment the door closed, Chelsea turned to me and asked, “Do you like my sister?” At this point I was a bit more prepared so laughed and responded the same way I had before. Megan eventually came back out and we proceeded to play basketball and talk. That was the beginning.
Since then, we’ve gone through quite a bit of life together. Middle school and high school, with some of the normal teenage drama included. And major life events as well. It has been fun to see them accomplish the goals they had years ago.
Quick side story: I had the opportunity to watch them play each other in AAU softball during high school. They were on opposing teams and it was exciting to watch. The play that stood out the most? Chelsea was on second base, there was a hit to the outfield where Megan was. Chelsea was rounding third and stopped on a dime when she realized Megan had the ball and was ready to gun her out at the plate! It was a fun time with their family.
Here’s why I tell this story about Meg and Chels: it is now thirteen years later and our friendship is still intact. We don’t talk every day, but when we are in the same city and are able to get together, we do. And the relationship doesn’t skip a beat. Back then, I didn’t know many people. They were in fact the first two friends I made in California.
Megan, it is amazing that you have managed to simultaneously raise a family of four children, support your husband who serves the community as an officer, and build your business “Hands Full Full Heart”. Congratulations on surpassing 4,000 sales! The best is yet to come!
Chels, you continue to amaze me with your work ethic and your passion for sports. To see all you have overcome to get where you are now both in softball and in life is truly inspiring. Congratulations on being named to the 2017 International All-Star Softball Team; no doubt it was well-deserved!
You can’t buy relationships like this. So, I will acknowledge them and share them as a way of saying thank you. I have many friends that are doing amazing things right now and it is exciting and encouraging to see them building! I am so thankful that these two ladies spied on me, let me use their basketball and hoop, and then came outside to talk to me all those years ago.
-David A. Brown-Dawson, 22 August 2017